With
the upcoming release of my novel, Impossible,
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about how I got to the end product and about everyone
who helped me in some way to reach my end goal. There are so many people I want
to thank, but most of all my critique partners, Erica and Michelle.
If
you’re a writer, then having a great critique partner is extremely valuable. A
good critique partner is someone who has a great eye, can help you find your
mistakes, and will give you feedback that will improve your story.
A
GREAT critique partner does all that and MORE. Wait, there’s more? There sure
is! A great critique partner “gets” your writing style and what you’re trying
to do with the story even if it’s not quite there yet. A great critique partner
is invested in your story and believes in your characters. A great critique
partner laughs at your jokes (yes, this is a requirement), shares book
boyfriends with you and listens to you while you vent about your bad day.
I
am lucky enough to have not one, but TWO great critique partners.
You’re
probably wondering, “Where do I find myself a great critique partner?” Well,
there isn’t one answer for that. Your critique partner could be a family
member, a friend, another writer or someone who lives halfway across the world
who you’ve never met before. It could be anyone really.
I
honestly can’t remember how I met Michelle. I just remember finding her blog
one day, almost two years ago, and then never leaving. Or maybe Michelle found
me? Since Day One, Michelle has believed in my WIP. It took over a year before
she read ANY of my work. Now that’s dedication. When I was having doubts about
my story, Michelle said to me, “Get over it.” Tough love? Yes, but it made me
realise that I needed to be more confident about my work. That was the best
advice anyone has ever given me and I remind myself that whenever I start
having doubts.
You
will never believe how I found Erica. Look up at the top of the blog. See that
button that says “Next Blog”? When you click on it, it will send you to a
completely random blog. Every single time. Completely RANDOM. One day, I
clicked it. I found a blog where a mommy of three sometimes reviewed books in
between blogging about her adorable children. That’s how I found Erica. The
thought scares me that I could NOT have found her if I’d never clicked that
button. I email Erica every day, so I can’t imagine what it would be like not
knowing her.
Guys,
what I’m saying is that above everything else, a great critique partner should
be your friend. Someone you can talk to you when you’re at your lowest and
someone who is able to help you be the best that you can be.
So,
what are you waiting for? Click that “Next Blog” button. Who knows who you
could meet?
Fabulous post, Komal! I absolutely agree with you that having a critique partner is so important. I had one a few years ago, and since then we've parted ways, because I still write, and she doesn't have the interest any longer. I was lucky enough to start a new writing adventure with an amazing friend a little over a year ago, and I value her input SO much!
ReplyDeleteI think we have found something we all agree with again! I can't remember how we met either, but am super happy we did. Your input is invaluable. I can't wait for Impossible
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